pregnant Before Marriage

Love is finally sex. Become mother is a great thing but keep relations and being pregnant before marriage is just like curse. However her boyfriend accept it, there are many factors one lady can't give birth before because she may have many dreams for her family and to make career. She became pregnant cause of small mistake at this time there is no1 to understand what's really happen to her. Ladies alone is not responsible for this but most society and family without understanding they blame for it only to Ladies. That's true both have enjoyed the sexual relations. But why only ladies get the blame.

Problem faced by a Ladies after pregnancy:

she is in need of solution of the problem and support to fight against such society but most of us descourage and keep her in very low place. Rather we say many bad things. Everyone says she is bad girl who knows what's happening inside her.

Friends

Family and friends are not same thing. Friends play an important role in the life to take wrong or right path after the guidance of family. Friends are of different kind and nature as we every individual are of different nature.
In my life i have got various type of friends. Some who supports me for better and show me right way..some are pull leg. whenever i tried to support and do good for someone it always go wrong. what i want to make them understand i am never able and do. I m sweet girl being very small among class. so everyone likes me so i can't hurt anyone and i always tries to be nice with everyone. I have one friend she is very good and nice but only difference she dont' think as i expect. she says everything very impractical and unrealistic for us but in real her words are so real. She believes in God, Truth, and Honesty. She always wants everyone's good.

Today, i break that good relationship with her...she dont' want i am with her, may be i have hurt her many times and understand me as one of the bad n vain person of the world. I talk to her and she says she waste my time which is not true. She is very alone in college life so i just want to be with her so that she won't feel alone but it is wasting my time she says.

Only lucky and good person got very close and good friends in the whole life. I always think as i have very good and long-life friends but it is not true.

I lost one of her very sad... but it is the life have to come alone and run alone. I m of such who can't make anyone my own...

Great Day

Today (20-may-2010) i was in the place from where i became a person. I collect lots of ideas and confidence to do something. I m feeling i Can do lots of things... I really enjoy the day there and had one great day ever i had. I assure myself today i will be a person of the country and help my country. We have everything in our country, no1 needs to go out of country. we always have to take care of it. I got confidence to start my different life with new style, attitude and personality. Everyone have some features or skill that are hided but we have to explore it and become 1 popular person.

In life we Have to always keep in mind there are different things. They are:

i) Don't think of other what they think of u...:

             Here, i want to say 1 thing, how many of us, think of others, do we really have time to think of other person's attitude, behaviour, personality... if no then why we think we think, other will say, what i m doing, what type of me... so we shouldn't think of others. We have to care ourself what suit to us.

ii) Willingness to change:

             Do u really want to change urself?? think that question then reply urself, if u feel something bad going on ur life, n want to have changed, u must analysis ur bad habbits, its causes and its consequences in ur life. The time if u want to change, it is never too late, starts from now n don't wait for later or tomorrow.

iii) Never copy other:

           We really want to be like other, in most of things, like topper in the college, Miss world, Superstar, Super model which is really very bad. Why you copy other, u r urself unique and can be 1 of different kind. Never try to copy n do like others do, develop ur own features n qualities that will forward ur step of life.

iv) Dream Big:

          He have said in his speech, to dream high or big more than u have think. Because, there is power on dreams. Don't say that u can't do becuasue problem of country n family don't support, ur dream r such cheap which is stopped or harms by small think like banda, strike, and government.

v) Encourage your friends:

          I want to request  with all not to descourage or laugh on others' performance. However he/she is doing bad or not well, u shouldn't laugh at him/her, u should encourage. Never pull the person's legs. u r not the puller, if u can go in competition with him/her.

other something to remind always in mind:

* See an opportunity in each problems.

* We will only cry if we don't try to fly.

* Attitude to gratitude take u to the altitude

* Take seriously that time, which never wait to any1

* Keep winning attitude.

* We come with nothing and go with nothing so, do the work in welfare of beings like Buddha, whose name and fame never removed.

* Leader and Winner doesn't react.

Now, with all above feelings and thoughts, i wish you all will get something. I m sure now our country Nepal will develope very soon. The people of the country make the government not the government of country. So, Now it is in our hand want to develop or leave as it is.

Let us make our country such, where people come to visit and work. Our country is very beautiful and rich in everything. I got it, still i m not tried because i m Inspired

Poverty in Nepal

Today we have class discussion on the topic POVERTY in NEPAL an emerging topics in present situation. Then, i realise that we have to do something for the country to remove poverty. Nepal is a prospere country having Herbs, Water resources, Labour force, Tourism Sector, Minaral resources etc. But Proper utilization and management of such resources, more than 60% of total population are under poverty line. Still we have only sold our labour going on foreign country doing D3 jobs. that is D=irty, D=anger, D=ifficult.

Poverty is one of the cause of underdeveloping our country. It  is also a diamension of social stratification. Poverty refers to the range of income of individual below the income that required to feed and fulfil his and himself and his dependent. The situation of People of Nepal is very poor in the sense to education, employment, technical knowledge which making the country worse and worse.

The Causes of Poverty in Nepal

There are various causes which is helping to push backward our country Nepal. Any country become prospere if there is political sound and infrastructure development. The Major Causes of Poverty are as follow:

* Political instability :

                         In each country political situation plays vital role. Nepal is facing political instability since Moists came in the country since 12 years. they raise the issues of discrimination and labour problems. But with their entry more problem is developing. They come with violence, criminal activities. During the fight period of 12 years. Most of Nepali have difficult situation. From the threaten of Moists, many are compelled to join moists, many ran away from their own houses and lands. That is also a cause of political instability. It is supporting in increasing poverty rate.

* Ignorace of Government in Education :

                       If the Government is not strong enough and ignore the important activities like in education, then forsure, the country becomes poor. Education is a basic needs of every individual, but in Nepal more than 65% of population are under illetracy. They are unaware of the education.

* Population Growth :

* Unemployment:

* Lack of Women Empowerment :

* Government intervension in Industrial development:

* Lack of Technical and Specialized Education:

Family

Having less family members is not important but having happy family with all frank and sharing feelings between family members is very important. Family is group of close or blood relation living together under one roof.

My favourate Family type: 
Joint family:

I like to live in the joint family with all members where our Grand-parents, Parents, Uncles, Cousins live together sharing the common features and feelings. Most of Nepali society prefer Joint family in the rural areas. But with the mordanization, People of city are becoming individualist who think of themself and believe on freedom. MOst of people hate to live with grand-parents and parents. This it is the influence of mordanizationa and Eastern culture.

Importances of Joint family :
i) To conserve Traditional Beliefs, values and norms
ii) Promote Cooperative spirits

iii) Secures the advantage of division of labour....

iv) To transfer the cultures and traditions to next generation
There are many other advantages being in Joint Family. However, it has also disadvantages but if we have we-feeling among the members that can be avoided easily.

Single Family:
Single family is a nuclear family, where only parents and childrens stay under one roof with sharing everything.